Jealousy

One thing I learned about jealousy. It's something that some people can't avoid. It's one of the negative emotions. Well, jealousy is usually related to romance.

Why do people feel jealous. I learned that for some people who doesn't feel jealous, it's because they trust their partner so much that it doesn't bother them if their partner is close with another person. Whereas in others that's not the case. For some people even though they said they don't mean to feel jealous, that it's something appear in their hearts, deep deep down, they don't really trust their partner or they're afraid to lose their partner.

Somehow I do wonder when people say that they trust their partner but still feel jealous. For me, I think someone scared them, maybe someone left them behind, or their previous partner lied to them and cheat at them, or they saw people getting cheated by someone dear to those people.

Now, I think the only option they have is try to put those trust to someone better, and try to learn to trust their partner again, especially when those partner are not their previous partner who left them.

I somehow feel that everytime you got jealous, the loyalty of your partner decrease a little. And finally, when they feel that you don't trust them anymore by being jealous all the time even with their friends, they'll start to be loyal to someone who trust them. They'll started to leave those who don't trust them for someone who does.

But again, those are just my opinion, whether it is true, correct, valid or not I have no idea. What do you think?